Noctivagus wrote:sistersunshine wrote:I'm stunned and amazed.
I was going to ask 'why?' but then I thought and put myself in your shoes... I suppose I'd be astounded if somebody said that to me also Its true though. I noticed your absense and regretted that you were not around here any more.
sistersunshine wrote:I have to be honest, I stopped posting here because I asked a question one time and nobody responded and I kinda felt shut out.
Noctivagus wrote:You do realise I'm about to try and find that question now I am very very sorry that you ever felt 'shut out' here. I have a default where I feel the same, I do not expect to be liked and when I am liked I feel like I'm balancing on a wire of the chasm of 'failure and unwanted', bound to fall out of favour sooner or later. I think it dictates some of my responses.
Noctivagus wrote:I am really sorry that nobody answered your question. I do not know whether I could have done so but failed you. If I have nothing to say, I tend not to post unless it would be impolite otherwise. Not to criticise Gestalt, but I have read elsewhere that some think us cliquey... I do not think we are, but I accept that we might seem that way to some unintentionally. We are quite a quiet forum.
Noctivagus wrote:As far as I am concerned, you were a member that I particularly valued. I felt I clicked with you
And to steal from your reply to Sophist...sistersunshine wrote:That was WAYYYYYYY before my actual dx... which, BTW, my boss knows about. He's had a lot of psychology classes, since he studied to be a music therapist. He's very Spectrum-y although he knows nothing about us. LOL he'll learn!
sistersunshine wrote:It's a lovely atmosphere in which to work... ...Today the assistant manager called in sick and the new boss kinda made me his right hand. Since I'm good at organizing things, he now has me organizing the back room tomorrow, and wants me to get the whole place shipshape so that everything can be easily found and used. (Unlike now)
It's nice to feel so needed.
Sophist wrote:Just for reference, I don't want to ever purposefully ignore anyone here on Gestalt.
If I don't reply to a post, it's either because I just can't seem to find anything relevant or interesting to say, or because I don't have the mental energy to reply.
I'm sorry you felt shut out, sunshine. For me, personally, I don't ever want anyone to feel that way here.
Sophist wrote:And I hate to say it, but no matter how much I care for ALL the members here, there are just some days I don't have the energy to reciprocate and I have to be selfish.
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