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Hi! I'm Obviously New!

Postby LaylaStryker on Mon May 14, 2012 11:27 pm

Hiya I'm Layla. I was referred here by another user (Hi GoddessofLubbock!)
I'm 99% sure I'm autistic somewhere in the spectrum, but I'm awaiting a formal diagnosis.
I am 24, a woman and a mother to a near six year old daughter, who at present does NOT live with me.

Much of my life has been a struggle, I was a ward of the courts all of my teen years and I was shuttled to so many different doctors, by the hundreds, I lost count before age ten.

I am kind of confused as to how they missed something so obvious, I fit every bit of criteria for AS.
If I am property diagnosed, I will look into my legal options against the foster system that mistreated me for so long. (On a side note, I was also abused and neglected IN foster care, which is also why)

I have an inability to focus on anything for any length of time, form or make coherent statements that others can easily understand (although they make perfect sense to me) to form 'normal' relationships and have an unusual attachment to my cat, Billy, and a fascination with Android smartphones.
Separating me from my phone or my cat is a VERY bad idea.

I have few friends (I seem to pick abusive people to be friends with or begin relationships with) and even fewer family members. I do not speak to my biological family at all, due to their inability to understand me and their subsequent abuses of me and my property.

I suppose I'm just here looking to learn, support and be supported, on this new journey.

Thanks for reading! :)
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Re: Hi! I'm Obviously New!

Postby goddessoflubbock on Mon May 14, 2012 11:45 pm

Hi Layla and welcome to Gestalt!!

Take some time to poke around, you'll find lots of interesting people and maybe some direction in getting answers!

Lots of folks are dx'd as adults, my own DH is one ;)
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Re: Hi! I'm Obviously New!

Postby Aspen on Tue May 15, 2012 3:39 am

Hi Layla.

Welcome to Gestalt.
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Re: Hi! I'm Obviously New!

Postby BruceCM on Tue May 15, 2012 7:28 am

:welcome:
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Re: Hi! I'm Obviously New!

Postby adhocisadirtyword on Tue May 15, 2012 4:53 pm

Hi Layla - Welcome to Gestalt! Hope you find some support here.
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Re: Hi! I'm Obviously New!

Postby Sophist on Mon May 21, 2012 2:38 pm

Hi, Layla! :) Hope you enjoy Gestalt. I like the unique purple text.

Best of luck seeking a dx. It can be a challenge for adults, especially females. Hopefully that will improve over time.
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